The loss of a veteran is profound. It is the passing of a hero, a family member, and a keeper of stories. In the midst of grief, families are also tasked with honoring a legacy of service, often navigating a world of military protocols and benefits that can feel unfamiliar and overwhelming.

Planning a veteran's cremation is more than a logistical process; it is a final salute, a dignified and respectful tribute to their sacrifice and commitment to our country. Understanding the honors they are entitled to can bring immense comfort, ensuring their service is recognized with the solemnity and gratitude it deserves.

This guide aims to simplify the process and help you honor your veteran with clarity and dignity:

• Confirm Eligibility Early: The cornerstone of receiving military honors is the DD Form 214 (Certificate of Release or Discharge from Active Duty), which confirms an honorable or general discharge. Locate this document early and make several copies, as it will be required by the funeral home, the VA, and the National Cemetery. Your funeral director can be an invaluable partner in verifying eligibility and submitting paperwork.
• Understand the Honors Available: Veterans are entitled to specific honors, regardless of whether they are buried or cremated. These sacred rituals include:

1. The presentation of a meticulously folded American flag to the next of kin.
2. The playing of Taps, performed by a bugler or through a high-quality recording.
3. A rifle volley salute (often referred to as a 21-gun salute), performed by an honor guard.

• Explore National Cemetery Benefits: One of the most significant benefits is the option for no-cost inurnment in a VA national cemetery. This includes a designated space in a columbarium niche or a memorial garden, a government-provided urn if needed, a grave marker, and perpetual care. This hallowed ground provides a serene, permanent resting place among comrades.
• Personalize the Tribute: While military honors provide a structured framework, there is ample room for personalization. You can choose a private urn engraved with their branch of service, display their uniform and medals at the memorial service, or incorporate their favorite music. The ceremony can be a unique blend of military tradition and personal reflection.

Navigating this journey is a weighty responsibility, but you do not have to do it alone. Lean on the expertise of your funeral director, who is experienced in coordinating with the VA, and reach out to local Veterans Service Organizations (VSOs) for support and guidance.

For a detailed, step-by-step checklist on eligibility, how to request honors, choosing an urn, and accessing VA benefits, please download our free guide: "Honoring Their Service: A Family's Guide to Veteran Cremations.”